Fetish Fantasy Play with Kissra and Sara
Last updated: 26-Mar-25@16:00 Central Winnipeg time.
FAQ: It is important to note that everything in this article is related to sexual play and "not" normal friendships in day-to-day life. Sara and I are both very social and welcoming to everyone. We believe in friendship with people of all backgrounds, regardless of faith, age, appearance, body types, skin colors, identity, sexes, and genders. Our core principle is that everyone has the right to live as they choose, as long as they don't infringe on the same right for others. In short, We believe in respecting individual choices and avoiding the imposition of personal beliefs. Basically, we're all about 'live and let live'.
Fetish Fantasy Play
Before I say anything, please keep in mind that myself and Kissra are absolutely not embarrassed of our natural bodies and sexuality and fantasies. If society taught you otherwise, that is your perspective and not ours. Also, note that myself and Kissra do not engage in sexual anything with strangers outside our "immediate or extended" poly family OR close friends circle. And that, me and Kissra are very curious people. We love to try all kinds of sexual acts together as partners in life. It does not mean we are like that in real life or we are looking for that with other people. I will describe some of the details below.
Myself and my life partner Kissra are in a unique poly relationship. We are open to adding new people to our family if you fit our "very specific" criteria. Please “do not” confuse this! We do not have an open relationship, we do not swing or swap partners. We do not join orgies and do threesomes..etc. and definitely we do not have sexual acts with strangers (outside the virtual world). While occasionally we do consider couples with a feminine or queer male partner, to have adult-couples-fun, we do not swap/swing or play separately. Kissra and I are not escorts and we do not offer services to others. What we have is a "very specific" fetishes and we both know "exactly" what we want.
About Kissra
Kissra is a highly social person who engages in conversations with anyone. She is known for her inclusive nature and ability to connect with people of all backgrounds, engaging in diverse conversations, even those involving fetish play. While open to diverse friendships, Kissra's romantic and intimate interests within our polyamorous structure are specific. My soulmate and life partner, Kissra, is a formal person, direct, and unapologetically outspoken lesbian who identifies as a boyish femme. She seeks a cisgender woman aged around ~45-55 (plus/minus ~five or so years) for romantic or intimate partnership to join our poly dynamic, prioritizing attention to personal hygiene and bodily maintenance, class, a good personality, and a clear understanding of the distinction between fantasy and reality.
Kissra’s interests: She gets off on dominating slave/sissy/sub men. Please do not confuse this with torture like most so called doms on FetLife, and other fetish sites, seem to be doing while barking orders. She also loves it when her slaves/sissies and subs pamper her with gifts and nice gestures. But don’t be twisted, you’ll need to be her slave or sub first for her to appreciate you.
Some of Kissra’s fetishes: She enjoys making her slaves watch her pleasure herself with another woman and she loves to suck my dick in front of her slaves to show you what you can’t have and to show you how small your dick in comparison to what she has (Small Penis Humiliation fetish SPH). Then when I cum on her face or inside her mouth she likes to cumswap it (spitting it in your mouth and on your face without touching) with her slaves because you are not worthy to get the cum from the source. Please do not confuse this with she likes cum and sucking cock. It is a meticulously specific and intricate act we do together. Also, she like to make her slave watch her pussy get fucked with my dick and then makes you do a specific cleanup job where you lie under her while she stands above you and pushes the cum out her pussy and onto your face and head and make you swallow every drop. Basically she truly gets off by humiliating you in a way that strips you from your manhood and turns you into the sissy little beta bitch that you truly are.
For details on Mistress K slave club, see this article:
https://fetlife.com/users/19055204/posts/11601953
Note1: Kissra did self-shot amateur porn solo and with me only (never with anyone else) way before I got into the professional paid porn industry. My porn experience is vastly different from hers. She and I shot normal couples adult videos and pictures with each other (just me and her and never anyone else) because it was cool and we like to try. She also did nude modeling and implied work with other models but no sexual acts or penetration or exchange of bodily fluids, etc.
Note2: Just because you try out something does not mean you like it or into it or you are like that in real life. Never mix fantasy play with real life!
About Sara:
I am not straight. Having said that, I'm also not gay or into anything specific. I can be attracted to anyone (regardless of sex or gender) and to multiple people, not at the same time and not to the same degree. My entire sexual experience was mostly with Kissra alone. I am excluding the professional paid amateur porn I did with cis-women-only, because these are sexual acts I did that were directed by a full camera crew and it wasn’t like dating a cis-woman and going wild with her in the sac. Participating in the paid porn industry, as a model, did give me a huge experience in the various arts of “fucking” but only an idiot will assume that cis-women are into this shit. The content I did in the paid adult industry was geared to male fantasies that involved big dick destroying a tight pussy and a tight butt-hole and choking women and drenching their mouths and faces with cum, who pretended to love this garbage. We did it because it paid well!! I made some really cool friends from the adult industry and we still talk and see each other to this day.
Everyone who knew me, knew that I was different and that I wasn’t interested in pussy or dicks. My sexual interests are based on personality and how you make me feel. When you are intimate with me, this intimacy will go based on our mutual emotions and can become very sexual or remain at intimate and deep foreplay. Unlike other men who’s after orgasmic ejaculations, I care about the feelings from the process of being intimate.I enjoy seeing my partner safe and wanting my intimacy that keeps building up based on the feedback I get from my partner.
As I get stimulated from light touching, if my partner reaches out for my penis it will get hard instantaneously. I will have the urge to penetrate and ejaculate. In this scenario I will be in a dominating mode and kind of want to have my way with them, doing it all eloquently to keep them feeling safe and comfortable.
Without the initial touching stimulation, I will not be able to get hard and nothing will happen unless I use my imagination and try to get hard that way, (which is what I used to do in the porn industry and with Kissra’s slaves). But if I do that then it will not be pleasurable for me and the pleasure will be one way for them only).
Seeing naked cis-women, cis-men, crosdressers, trans or anything naked does zero for me in terms of sexual stimulation. Only light touching from someone I find their personality intriguing is when I get stimulated which can go sexual very quickly. In fact, seeing genitals before I got to know your personality well, makes me run the other way!!!
On the other hand, if my partner after stimulating me with light touching and does not reach for my penis and instead foreplay's with me touching, kissing..etc, and as I read their feelings and desires, then I will not be hard and will not need to ejaculate; therefore, it will turn into this deep sensual foreplay. Lesbian cis-women love this deep stimulating foreplay without having to worry about penis penetration and male ejaculation.
Lesbian cis-women orgasms all involved deep slow and very sensual foreplay with touching and going down on them. Every woman is very different when going down on them and once you know what she likes and how she likes it done, you become very attractive to her. One of the key points I learned when being with “pure”-lesbian cis-women (not bi-sexual) is that the key to pleasure is the setting and mood prior to the sexual foreplay.
With all my experiences with lesbian cis-women, mostly Kissra's girlfriends in our subservients-poly, never once they reached for my penis nor they asked for it. They however can't seem to have enough from deep, slow sensual foreplay the kind you do on rhythmic music (see my website for the music section and play the playlist called Mellow Moods). And the best sensual sexual play I ever had in my life was with Kissra and her girlfriend all three of us.
I have never been with another male partner to receive anal or oral sex yet, since this article was written and last edited.
Here is a video I did demonstrating how I like to be touched to get me stimulated:
Also, while I am stimulated, I read the emotions and feelings of my partner to see the direction they are leaning in terms if they want me to make love to them or surrender my body for their pleasure. It is important for my partner to feel safe, feel good and enjoy themselves; and on that regard, I see myself as submissive (don't confuse me with slaves and sissies, that is not me)
Having said that, then what am I? I removed labels from my FetLife profile so people don’t assume.
Also, since my sexual experience is limited to cis-women only, I’m trying to expand it. Kissra was in the fetish lifestyle doing photo-shoots and learning from fetish events (similar to the Ball in Winnipeg) long before I got into the paid adult industry. She is a lot more advanced than me and also she has her Dominatrix/Mistress private fetish club going with many of her slaves/sissies and subs. In terms of the fetish lifestyle, I’m beyond green and extremely vanilla. When I say I’m trying to expand my experience, I don’t mean a fuck fest with me Kissra and some strangers. What I mean is with me alone so I can gain the experience, I’m looking to evolve and expand with people from all walks of life, backgrounds, genders and sex. Always never assume and always ask and be very direct and specific. Unless I or Kissra "explicitly" tell you something "very specific", never assume it!
Summery
We are extremely open minded people that are absolutely not embarrassed about our bodies or sexuality. It is unhealthy to live a fake life of pretending while in the hush you practice being weird. Sex, sexual fantasies and living a life by being your true self is healthy and not shameful. However, please do not confuse this as a green light for people to accommodate your fetishes. Never associate myself or Kissra with others!
Everything we do is based on (1) a deep understanding of everyone’s exact and specific fetishes, thresholds and boundaries. (2) consent is the keyword! Never ever assume or misinterpret anything that is remotely unclear or you are violating a major cardinal rule of consent. Forcing your behavior on someone never ends in a good way. (3) make a distinction between fantasy and real life. This is pure common sense. Comments made on content is just stupid play and does not give you a green light to anything. Never mix reality with fantasy and assume. (4) just because you think you fit someone’s criteria for a fetish, it does not mean they are willing to include you in their play. Stay cordial and be proper to learn about everything needed. Starting your approach sexually or making assumptions will put you in the idiot list and you lose out. In this type of play, we (me and Kissra) will be “extremely specific” in everything we want in order not to leave anything for misinterpretation.
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