Girlfriend Application

Well, this is going to be awkward, not because I’m shy. I am absolutely not shy, not in the least bit. However, people might be shocked when I talk directly-straightforward without sugar coating. I will try my best.


Introduction:

With my transition from male to female on hormones including doing the “downstairs” surgery in the very near future, I went on a quest to socialize with different people and explore life as Sara. I talked to many people and went out with few, just to test the waters. I’ve had some really amazing times with some and been intimate with a couple of them, in both cases it was incredible.


Going out with different people is a cool way to experience life and make friends at the same time. So I thought of writing this article to demystify some of the questions I was asked.


About me:

I am a person who gets attracted to different types of people regardless of sex, gender, age, looks or financial status. I derive my pleasures from seeing my partner happy, satisfied and wanting my interaction and company. And on that note, I consider myself submissive (do not confuse me with bottoms or sub/slave mentalities, this is not me!).


What attracts me to you:

  • Your personality is key. Being nice to me in general will get you through the door.

  • Interacting with me everyday even a simple email/chat saying “hi” will suffice.

  • Wanting my affection and interaction. I tend to move away from people who do not reciprocate my affection/interaction.


If we connect and the chemistry is good:

I am very affectionate and romantic in a way. I am extremely considerate to the needs and wants of my partner. I go out of my way to see my partner happy and relaxed. If we connect, I will support you financially, mentally and stand by your side in the good, the bad and the ugly. I never ever quit supporting my loved ones regardless of situation or circumstance. I will even hold your back when you are in the wrong. For me, loving someone and standing by their side means just that, unconditionally and without limits. I am also loyal and will never break our accords between us, you know, the ones that define our relationship.


My characteristics and personality:

  • I am absolutely not shy and extremely direct and speak my mind without sugar coating or beating around the bush.

  • I have zero jealousy. For me, if you can’t trust your partner then you are in a fake relationship.

  • I am extremely open minded. Meaning, if my partner would like to have experiences with others, it can be possible if we agree and adhere to specific rules. However, if my partner decides they are not comfortable with sharing intimacy with others, that will be OK as well and we can be reserved for each other only.



In terms of sexuality:

Many people shy away from discussing an important element in any relationship for the fear of looking awkward or weird, well, not me. In my case, I am planning to have the “downstairs” surgery, I’m just waiting to get a date for the operation. Therefore, I will not have my male package. So, what does that mean? Well, if my partner wants me to top with a strapon, I will do that. And if they want me to surrender my body for their pleasure, I also will do that. Or, perhaps a mix of both for added fun ;)


I also had exposure to many fetishes and willing to try some of them in the Dom/sub-slave dynamics like:

  • Forced feminization.

  • Bondage.

  • Impact play.

  • Humiliation fetishes.

Among others. Basically I am open to trying many different things to spice up the sex life and thus the entire relationship experience.



Types of relationships I will seek:

  • Casual friends, not intimate. I like to make friends from all walks of life.

  • Casual intimate relationship. Remember, we must connect first. I don’t do intimacy with random strangers. If I don’t know you or haven’t met you in person, it will never happen.

  • Steady relationship.  We can go steady for a period of time for fun and keep it going until we decide to end it and revert back to being friends. 

  • Steady and long term relationship. I am in a poly (not open relationship) and you can read the details about it here: https://lgbtq-sara.blogspot.com/2024/12/our-poly-partners-in-life.html



Summary:

I will keep adding to this article as I get asked the different questions I get. Also if you like to know something, put it in the comment or send a DM and I will answer you. 


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